The adage “No man is an island” implies that man cannot possibly live on his own. To a large extent, this is correct. However, the benefits of privacy should not be underestimated because it allows for the replenishment of one’s energies. Depending on the situation, I prefer a healthy mix of both.
Life is full of joy, and we get to choose how to spend it. Some people prefer to spend the majority of their time alone. Without a doubt, we all have problems in our lives that we must address in some way. Spending time with close friends will, indeed, temporarily distract you from all of your problems. Additionally, spending time with a group of people allows you to have fun. There is a bunch of things to do to make the time memorable. Surrounding yourself with people you love is more amusing than spending time alone.
When I am in a good mood and want to share my happiness, I enjoy the company of others. Trying to keep my happiness to myself will only dissipate it, rendering my happiness null and void. As a result, when I’m feeling frisky, I’d rather be with my friends. The company of my friends will result in the exchange of jokes, experiences, and stories, resulting in a general sense of camaraderie. Such company will only add to my happiness. In addition, when I am down, the concern of my friends naturally lifts my spirits. Their presence will go a long way toward assisting me in overcoming the unfortunate circumstance that has plagued me. At times like this, I can fully understand the meaning of ‘friendship’.
I dislike eating alone in public places such as hawker centres or fast food restaurants. It’s awkward to try to avoid looking at people around you, so I usually end up rushing through my meal. Eating alone appears to be a sign of loneliness, especially when everyone else around me is happily interacting in groups. As a result, I would rather have my meals packed and brought home to eat in front of the television set than sit alone in a public place.
When I go shopping, however, I prefer to be alone. Having people around me at such times only serves to distract me, as I feel obligated to devote my attention to the company. This means that I may be unable to concentrate on the task of shopping. Also, having company while shopping means compromising on where to go. This will undoubtedly limit my style because my clothing and accessory preferences may clash with those of my friend. As a result, I prefer to shop alone.
When I’m exhausted from schoolwork or family problems, I’d rather be alone. This is due to the fact that such occasions necessitate time for reflection, which will allow me to sort out my issues and begin to recover from the stress. As a result, such times will be better spent alone. I will not be bothered by other people’s opinions, which may influence the decisions I must make. Furthermore, when I am alone, I am best able to judge the situation without bias or defensiveness.
As a result, I am not a person who enjoys both the company of others and my own solitude. Different responses are required for different situations, as with everything else. When I need to be alone, I will enjoy the time by myself. But when I feel the need for company, I will certainly not deprive myself of that.
